Talking About Relationships!
May 21, 2010 By Celebrity Author and International Bestseller,
Byron "Big-Naz" Williams
Q1. My wife and I have been married for 14yrs and she
seems to hate my guts! No matter what I do she despises me. She talks to everybody but me. I do everything a husband is
supposed to do. How do I win my wife back? Signed- "Why did I get married?" -Detroit
A1. Your position is very common amongst married men. A female friend of mine once compared her exhusband of 10 yrs
to her furniture. She said "He's pretty much like furniture; I know he's there but I'm not paying attention to him".
When women become like that, she's preparing her move toward D-I-V-O-R-C-E. Here are the tale tell signs: 1. Always texting
around the clock and doing it at an angle so that you can't see the phone. 2. You discover a secret email acct she's been
quiet about. 3. Suddenly cancels her facebook page, and or doesn't list any pix of you on her page. 4. She refuses to
share the responsibility of the bills but always shopping. In addition, she's stacking her loot in secret accts. 5. Lastly,
she doesn't desire your touch nor attempts any intimacy in your direction. This is providing that the husband is doing
his duties to the fullest. This doesn't apply to a part-time husband. The best response for a husband is to live his life
to the fullest. Do the following: Be sure to stay in shape, buy some new sexy under wear and cologne, plus resist any hints
of her wanting romance or intimacy for 2mos. Lastly, stop paying all the bills. Sometimes in order for you to get a reconnection
with your wife is to let a bill get disconnected. Don't fall for , "the man pays all the bills." There are time
she can only see the light if she's sitting in the dark. Men be true to the plan because if you faulter you fail. Show
her you mean business. Sometimes you need to mirror your mate so they can see how they act!
Q2. My girlfriend
of 2yrs loves for me to perform oral sex on her but she hates to perform oral sex on me. I feel used and under appreciated.
Why won't she hook me up? -Signed "The cat got my tongue!"
A2. WOA!!! Dude that's some BS!!!
For Real! Hell, I'm getting mad as if she wouldn't churn my butter. Bro, your girl is a Pop Tart! Lemon flavor! That
is the most selfish ish a woman can do to a man. Shut up ladies! "Men been doing it for years!" that's what you
all chiming right now. True! We also been eating well at the buffet for years, unless you want a city wide Famine on your
hands, we want that "Becky". Men, stop setting yourself up for 68 "You do her and she owes you one".
Women are in power now fellas! They want us on our knees in all kind of disrespectful cunniglingus for their pleasure.
The #1 reason according Metro Detroit women why most men don't get shined up , is bad hygiene. Women don't like salty balls
fellas. Wash your ass men, and powder your people. Keep this in mind: Do you buy a steak from the market without washing
it, season it and throw on the grill? If you do; you nasty as hell and probably don't wash your balls either. Women like
their felatio like orange juice "Freshly Squeezed" not like donuts, "Day Old". Therefore don't expect
her to take your all day, ball playing, work on the assemly line, playing X-box all day having tube steak into her grille.
Clean your meat! Ladies if you like wiggling like spaghetti when he's at your plate, I advise you to recipricate the brains.
Your mind is terrible thing to waste. Also be warned; know who and what you put into your mouth. Fellas ring the dinner
bell. "Come and get it!"
Q3. My wife and I are in our early 40's and been married now for
17yrs. Our sex life has truly diminished to the point where it starts arguments. She constantly complains of pain during
sex and has a problem with lubrication. Sometimes she tries to be a trooper and allow me to plow through her pain but it
makes me feel like a rapist. Therefore we rarely get satisfaction. What is wrong with her? Signed- for Her Sugar Walls
, East Pointe
A3 it's unfornuate that this topic seems to be taboo but I'm going to expose something
that women have experienced for years. I'm willing to bet she's experiencing Female Impotency. Yes ladies, it's a medical
term. It's when a woman has a problem with lubrication, performance, libido, and the act of sex. It's also known as the
"Cold fish or Frigidity". Sex to the woman actually becomes stressful and they see sex as a painful chore more
than a pleasurable act. "According to a recent University of Chicago study, one in three women has a significant lack
of interest in sex. This means that tens of millions of women are suffering in silence, with explosive and potentially devastating
effects on relationships and marriages."-Ebony Magazine Feb. 1999 by Melissa Ewey
I will be honest; it's
hard for men to be patient in manners like this because we figure we can just add water. The problem goes deeper than what
men realize. Having children plays a major factor in painful sex. After deliveries, the vaginal walls thin out which cause
more friction and irritation. Another factor, as women get older, they loose estrogen and need to seek medical attention
for hormone replacement. These hormones will boost the libido as well as comfort a woman as she goes through the change
"Pre-menopause or Menopause". Let me break it down for the men. Men-(You) O-(No) Pause(Stop). Got it? Good.
Be patient and stress medical attention from an O.B. GYN constantly. There are other issues that could induce her painful
sex and that might be psychological. Ladies be advised, no matter how good or great your man is, he will entertain the
thought of banging somebody else. Don't let your pride get in the way of your Vagina. They have short term corrective
measures as KY-Gel, extended foreplay, Vigorelle, Flax seed vitamins, and vaginal estrogen inserts. These help increase vaginal
lubrication and increased blow flow to the clitoris. Your doctor can provide you with more extreme measures like hormone
shots, prescriptions, and possible surgery. If you're a husband in that situation please remind your wife of the importance
of love making and her satisfaction. "I keep it raw. I keep it real, just like you like it!"
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